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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Feliz Navidad, preospero año y felicidad

Hola,

We hope all our followers, friends and family had an exciting and fun Christmas and we wish you all a happy and safe new year. 


Keeping the kids busy making stockings ...........


and stuffing Piñatas
We were thinking of you all enjoying the roast dinners or the seafood platters while we were tucking into Frijoles y Arroz (Beans and Rice) on Chrissy Eve.

This is a photo of our actual Christmas Eve lunch - no joke, was frijoles negro, arroz y queso citijo (black beans, rice and cheese that is like a cross between cottage and parmesan).  Petrina is in vegetarian heaven.  Its cooked in stock so is quite flavoursome.


Christmas Eve in Mexico is a big one (huge fireworks at the orphanage etc - see photo below) and then most of Christmas was spent as a big family, eating and playing with the kids.

Stuffing stockings 1am Christmas morning with the other volunteers
Some of the stockings lined up in the Capilla (Chapel) ready for Christmas morning (photos below also)


Not even 'Snow White', la coneja (the rabbit that is the orphanage pet) missed out on presents Christmas morning

Aleesha (left) and Erin, other volunteers, opening presents on Christmas morning

Petrina and Junior, dressed up as a Shepherd boy all ready for the christmas eve nativity play during ´midnight mass´ (which was actually at about  8pm, shhh, don´t tell).  There are so many kids that they have their own church service at the house!

....about 2 minutes later....
Mary y Joseph (Their actual names are Maria and Jose- how cool is that?)

Griselda, 17 and Angel, 12ish.  Angel played the Angel in the play.............. of course.

Love Petrina and Steve

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Personal Views on Our Stay

Hola,
This entry will be a little more about us, how we are going and what we are thinking here.

Overall things here are tough, hard work and mentally and emotionally exhausting.  We will need to re consider our leaving date to ensure we get some rest before returning to Australia!  We get a week off in January, we plan on going to Puerto Escondido - Mexican Pipeline.  The surf will be small at this time of year though, but in comparison to the Queensland coast will still be amazing.  We will then hopefully get another week off around March before taking a few weeks off on our way home. 

Challenges:
Everything from A-Z.  The kids don´t particularly take to us asking them to do things they are meant to do, which from their point of view is understandable.  They get these white people showing up to volunteer who don´t speak Spanish and don´t know anything about what tough times really are, who then try and tell them what to do (and to top it all off they then leave after a month or few)!  Most kids in Australia would be the same under the circumstances we think. 

Nothetheless, things have become a lot easier as their respect for us has increased as the weeks have passed by.  At the start especially, it was really tough when they would talk back to you in Spanish and just turn away from you, or ignore you altogether!  They boys in particular do not respect women much at all, so it is extra tough for Petrina.  Steve has sorted a few out with a bit of rough tatics though!  There´s a lot of ADHD type kids here, and there are a lot of fights, they (even the girls) know how to fight, that is for sure.  Breaking the fights up is often hard, but again the volunteer boys can use a bit of force, but it is hard for the volunteer girls.

To top it all off it is now school holidays for a few weeks so we are trying hard to come up with activities to keep them from general mischief! 
Joys:
The one-on-one time with the kids is so special.  They show love to you when their amigos aren´t around and are very cute.  Sport time with the kids is also a good opportunity to bond, Petrina´s soccer skills are improving fast as Mexican kids are obsessed with football.  Sunday afternoon is a ´family´ soccer game at the local playing fields (after the morning surf of course!).  There is usually enough players for 2 full-side teams!  So the joys are small and rare but they are good.

We also (thankfuly) are really enjoying living in a completely new culture, it is great walking around our new temporary town.  So colorful, so many characters and such nice locals.  They love their music and it usually starts up around 6am in the morning, blaring from every speaker a household owns.We are thoroughly enjoying trying out all the street food, ´sin carne´ (no meat) for Petrina of course!  Petrina plans to write a whole blog entry just devoted to food and nutrition in Mexico, as there is so much to tell on this subject alone!

Steve and Junior, 4 years.  The 1-on-1 time with the kids is rewarding, and Junior would have to be one of our favourites (shhh, don´t tell!).
Our Spanish is coming along slowly, its not as fast as we would have hoped though because all the kids at the orphanage understand English, even if they can´t speak it, so Steve especially has gotten lazy.  Hopefully as we venture out and about more and meet more locals we´ll make a few more leaps and bounds.

We miss you all!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Three photos

A quick post with a few photos. 

1. Petrina at The Italian Coffee Company - But it is very American, more like a Starbucks.  However it is our new hang out when we want something familiar or clean.
The Italian Cofee Company

Just a normal street photo
The Pan Man.  He comes 5 days a week (Pan means bread)

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

A day in the life............

Sorry there hasn´t been an update for a while, Steve has had a sinus infection and has spent a few days in bed.  This post will be updated over a few days to allow appropriate spelling editing by Petrina or maybe  not so sorry for the mistakes.  (The spell check is set for Spanish)

So as promised a little more about the orphanage.
The orphanage is amazing, so upmarket compared to their initial location that didn´t even have running water.  It is on a large block (just under an Acre) with high cement walls at the front and side, with two big automatic gates at the front, typical security for Mex.  (It is located in central Tapachula, only 5 min walk to the centre of town).  The house is made up of separate sleeping areas with the parents retreat in the middle.  The older girls have a wing off the side and all the boys and the rest of the girls are separated by mum and dad´s area and a few locked gates.  (The older boys live upstairs in a loft area overlooking the younger boys. ) There is an attached kitchen and dinning area with nice gardens and a kids play gym.  There was a small grassed area around the side but that is currenlty being dug (by hand) into a pool.  It will be a pool with attached music room and kids washing failities.  This all should be completed by Christmas or the New Year. 
Our days are broken up into two shifts shared among five volunteers, with more help arriving soon hopefully. 
Pool, dug by hand, being formed ready for hand pouring
Morning Shift - 5.30am - 2.30ish:  This involves getting the kids ready for school, quite a lot harder than it sounds and walking a few different groups.  The kids go to many schools in the area, some of them have scholorships and others go to public schools. The best part of the hectic morning is walking the two little ones to Kinda.  Everything is their playground and they must stop to look in the creek to see what is floating past.  Then the rest of the shift is spent around the house with a few kids who go to school in the afternoons or with others who don´t have school for the day.  The days involves cleaning, raking, gardening, tidying, organising or playing games with the ones who are left.    It is then time to pick the kids up from school and get them ready for lunch which starts about 2pm.  Schools finish before lunch to allow people to have a Siesta, i like this idea, if only the kids would have one though.  Lunch is their main meal and would typically involve Rice, Beans, Meat, Tortillas and a Salsa.  After lunch it is shift swap time. 



Afternoon Shift....
This shift is a little more full on.  After lunch it is lunch chores, they don´t seem to like the chores even though they know they have the jobs as its the same each week.  After chores it is homework time and then play time before dinner.  At 5.30 it is time to get the younger ones showered, another near impossible task.  Dinner is held over three meal times and dinner is Pan (Bread), the same each day.  It is a mix of sweet breads that gets delivered at 5pm each day. 

After dinner it is chore time again before bed time, starting at 6.30pm for the little ones.   Another difficult task.  Then its just the older kids who hand around doing their chores until about 10 or 10.30. 

All up very tiring. More shift stories and photos will appear in future blogs.